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Converging Layers of Shame
I’m reclaiming my heart #41
Turning toward Resources, Tuning into Presence
The Beginnings and Endings of Forever
Ode to Co-dependency: We are the ones we’ve been waiting for
“Ode to Co-dependency”, inspired by my last client who is on an amazing journey:
Co-dependents are just about dying for someone to be our safe person. A “port” as my client called it. Because we’ve been taking care of others for so fucking long, **we’re** wanting to be taken care of. Of course!
But we forget that we’re literally the ones we’ve been waiting for.
Bringing compassion, understanding and resources to trauma
Although trauma is becoming more talked about in everyday circles, sometimes it is still thought of as something that only “really unfortunate” people experience. You know, those people. But the truth is we’ve all experienced it in varying degrees.
I love how Gabor Mate approaches trauma: it’s not the event, he explains, it’s how we responded to the event that makes something traumatic. In some ways it may be overly simplistic, but it follows my own experience and what I see play out with my clients time and time again.